We didn’t want to just text them, “Hey can we completely tear apart the kitchen and put it back together? K. THANKS!” So we opened up a trusty Google Doc Proposal Template and filled it out with everything they would want to know. We started by thanking them for being so incredible all of these years, and wrote about how much we love the apartment. Before breaking down costs, we also explained that we believed that such an update to the kitchen would be a wonderful investment for them, because well, it’s true. They own the place, so any kitchen update immediately ups the property value, and cuts the need to do so in the near future.
We then went on to outline all of the materials we planned to use and their cost, either out of pocket for us or their value if they were to be gifted. We listed in detail everything we knew we would have to pay for ourselves, including the IKEA cabinet bases, the materials used to male the GLAM custom shelving, Smeg Fridge, IKEA countertop, hardware, crown moldings, ceiling medallion, and the myriad of supplies we would need to do everything ourselves. I made a mock up of how the kitchen would look after the renovation, and added it to the proposal, along with images and links to every design element we planned to bring in.
Then came the hard part — figuring out how to ask them if they would help pay for this. Sure, it may seem crazy that they wouldn’t pay for it since it’s their property, but at the end of the day, they didn’t ask for a kitchen renovation — we did. Still, even though we were beyond fortunate to have some of the priciest bits gifted, we were still going to have to shell out thousands for everything else. Money we really didn’t have considering we already live in one of the most expensive cities in the world, and our rent (which, fun fact, is actually the lowest out of every single one of our friends), already eats a huge chunk of our income every month. NYC is a whole different $$ world, y’all. •cries•
We proposed a few different reimbursement options while making sure they knew it was ultimately their decision if they wanted to help monetarily or not. They ended up opting to give us free rent 1 month and 1/2 rent for the following 3 months. That ended up almost covering most of what we put into the project! Hallelujah